POV: Can you marry your best friend?
When I first saw this topic, I smiled to myself. “Can you marry my best friend?” That question carries weight. Not just because it sounds sweet, but because it touches on something many of us have experienced — friendship that grows into something deeper.
Let me start by saying this… Yes, I can marry my best friend.
In fact, I believe it’s one of the best kinds of marriage anyone can have.
You see, when someone becomes your best friend, it means you both already understand each other. Of course, you cannot call Someone you don't know your best friend. You guys have been through thick and thin together. You guys have argued and settled, laughed, quarreled, blocked each other on social media(like in my case), supported each other in hard times, and celebrated together in good times. There’s already a solid bond — not just love, but also friendship, trust, and mutual respect.
Now imagine marrying that kind of person. That’s like having your gist partner, secret keeper, adviser, and cheerleader all in one person. Who wouldn’t want that?
But let me be real with you.
It’s not always as smooth as it sounds.
Let me share something personal.
There was a time I had a best friend. We were so close that people even started to suspect there was something between us. We shared everything — life updates, challenges, late-night chats, and random jokes. But somewhere along the line, I started catching feelings. Not just the “I care about her as a friend” kind — I mean the “I wish we were more than friends” kind.
But I never told her.
Maybe I was scared to ruin the friendship. Maybe I didn’t feel ready. Who knows?
Then one day......(I know you guys like love story)she told me she had a boyfriend. It hit so bad. That's when I feel the jealousy.....I begin to question why I didn't tell her...I acted cool, though, but deep down, I was not. I smiled through it, but something changed inside me.
We’re no longer as close as we used to be. Though sometimes it lives. We still talk occasionally, but that bond is not the same. I still check on her, but she doesn’t really put in the same energy as I do. It’s okay though. I just believe that maybe she found someone who fits her more than I did. That’s life.
But when she said one day, “I miss how we used to be,” I just told her to enjoy it while it lasts. No bitterness, no grudge. Just lessons and memories.
So to the question again — can I marry my best friend?
Yes with full chest, but only if the feelings are mutual, and the timing is right. Because one-sided love is painful, and friendship built on confusion does not last, and it always crashes.
Also, marrying your best friend doesn’t mean things will be perfect. Every relationship still needs effort, communication, and commitment. But you already have a head start because you both know each other well.
Now, not every best friend will become a life partner. Some are just meant to be good friends forever. But if the bond is strong, the respect is there, and the feelings are mutual — don’t be afraid to explore it.
Some people find love in strangers, others find it in their circle.
If yours is your best friend, then you’re lucky.
Thanks for reading my thoughts.*
Let me know what you think. Would you marry your best friend? Or have you had a similar story like mine?
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I believe marrying your best friend is a blessing many people dream of. It’s not just about romance but about building a life with someone who already knows your soul. When friendship and love meet, happiness becomes natural, and challenges feel lighter because of mutual understanding and trust.
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You got it right bro...... But.....in your case...what would you do?
Have you fall for your bestie before?
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There are more minuses if it comes to marrying your best friend. The relationship changes once married and lige struggles take over or reign. If the marriage doesn't work you lost your best friend.
Then if it doesn't work then we go back to our friend zone..... I experience something similar to this.
There's this close friend of mine....... I had a feeling... I told her, she accepted but ever since then.... We were somehow shy to each other...... Most times I have to be careful and think twice when am with her. She also noticed the same thing and her behavior so we called it off.... Friend zone forever 🤣🤣🤣