Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 108 : The choice of companionship or solitude; which suits you best?
Assalamu Alaikum,
Dear friends, how are you all, I hope everyone is well. At the beginning, I would like to sincerely thank the @steem4nigeria team for encouraging us to think and write about such an emotional and real topic. Through this competition, we are not just writing, but also sharing our real life experiences, emotions and desires. It is a kind of mental liberation, especially for those who are going through the pain of loneliness and love every day.
What do you think are the biggest advantages and disadvantages of living alone compared to living with someone? |
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I am a housewife living in a village house. My family consists of my in-laws, mother-in-law and my two and a half year old little daughter. My husband works in Dhaka, so I have to be without him often.
The advantages of being alone are that you can spend your time as you wish, you have freedom, you can make your own decisions, but the biggest disadvantage is that when you are upset, there is no one to share your joy or sorrow with.
And being with a partner means having a close person in your daily life. Who not only talks, but also takes a place in your heart. Having a partner by your side gives you the opportunity to talk at night. You can laugh together, and the girl also gets the affection of her father. However, yes, sometimes there is a difference of opinion, but that is mixed into love.
Do you believe living with someone helps improve emotional well-being, or can it sometimes limit personal growth? Why? |
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I believe that having a partner means getting mental peace. When I am with my husband, I feel like I am in safe love and I can become the best version of myself. Maybe sometimes there are limitations to freedom, but if the relationship is good, it is never an obstacle. Rather, a good partner helps us increase our self-confidence and trust in people. For example, I can organize myself when I am alone, but when a loved one is by my side, I become even brighter.
At what stage in life do you think it’s best to live alone, and when is it better to share your space with someone? |
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I think when a person is young, it is important to be alone for some time to find your identity, learn to make decisions, and build a life independently. But when the family starts, being alone means only suffering, at that time you need to have a partner with whom you can share life. After the birth of a child, you cannot live without a partner. He is not just a husband or wife, but a companion, a person who walks the path together.
If you had to choose between peace and companionship, which would you prioritize in your living situation and what shaped that choice? |
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My life experience has taught me that my companion is my peace. I used to think that being alone might be more peaceful. But now I understand that I find true peace only when I am with the person I love. When I finish all my work at night, I really want someone to be by my side so that we can talk a few words and laugh a little together. These desires make me understand that there is peace in being alone. But the joy and mental peace of being with a partner are even deeper and more beautiful.
Conclusion |
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Life can be spent alone, but the heart never wants to be alone. No matter how strong we are, there comes a time when all achievements feel incomplete without a person by our side. I still miss my husband very much. No matter how much work I do from morning to night, at the end of the day, the only wish in my mind is that he would be by my side. That wish is my answer. So I would say that life with a partner is the most peaceful life for me.
I invite my three friends,
@baizid123,@karobiami71,@nishadi89
Thank you so much