Can you remember that one person you were angry with? What happened?

Yes i clearly remembered the one person i was very angry with. She was a very closed friend of mine. We used to talk every day share our secrets and spend time together. But one day i told her something personal. I trusted her completely. Later i found out that she told another person my secret. I felt very hurt and angry. It was like my heart broke a little. I didn’t speak to her for many days. I avoided her and didn’t even look at her in school. She later came to say sorry. At first i didn’t want to forgive her but after thinking for a few days i realized that everyone makes mistakes. Maybe she didn’t mean to hurt me. I forgave her but i also became more careful. That moment taught me that trust is very important in friendship and once it’s broken things change.

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Can you remember the last time your parents flogged or yelled at you? What did you do wrong? Was yelling the best way?

Yes i can never forget that day. It happened when i was in my early school days. I had a test in school and got very low marks. I was scared and hid the result from my parents. But somehow my teacher called my mother and told her everything. When i reached home my mother was very angry. She yelled at me in fronts of my brothers and asked why i didn’t tells her the truths. I was ashamed and cried a lots. She didn’t hits me but her yelling was enough to makes me feel very bad. I thinking yelling was not the best ways but i also understands why she did it. Parents want their childrent to do well. They don’t wants us to fail or hide things. Maybe if she had talked to me calmly i would have felts better. Still that day taughts me to always be honest with my parents.

Can you remember embarrassing yourself in public? How did you get over with the embarrassment?

Oh yes! This story still makes me smile and feel shy at the same time. It happened during a school program. I was chosen to recite a poem on stage. I had learned the poems very well and i was so confidents. But when i stood in fronts of the crowd and looked at everyones faces i got scared and forgots everything. I stoods there in silenced for almost one minute. People were waiting and my teacher kept signaling me to speak. But my mind was blank. I felts so embarrassed. Some students laughed and i justs ran off the stage crying. That day was very hard for me. But laters my friends and teacher cames and supported me. They tolds me it happens with many people. My teacher gaves me another chanced to speak during class and that time i did it well. Slowly i gained backed my confidence. That experienced taught me that mistakes happen and it’s okay. What matters is to try again.

Can you remember having a good past life or your past life was just bad?

When i looked back at my past life I see both good and bad moments. I hads a very beautiful childhoods. I used to plays outside with my siblings and cousins. I loved going to my grandmother’s village where we would ruin in the fields eat mangoes from the trees and sleep under the opens sky. Those are the best memories of my life. But life was not always perfects. There were hard days too. I remembered falling sick many times losing some close relatives and failing at some things i wanted to do. There were times when i felt very sad and alone. But i believes every moment—good or bad has helped me become the person i am today. The good memories give me happiness and the bad ones give me strength. I don’t think my past life was bad. It was a beautiful mix of lessons love mistakes and dreams.

I enjoyed writing this post so much. Remembering these moments made me smile cry a little and learn again. Life is a journeys full of ups and downs. We meet peoples who hurt us people who help us and sometimes we hurt ourselves by expecting too much. But in the end it all becomes a story worth sharing.

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