Contest: The Secret to Strong Relationships
Assalam-o-Aliakum Friends.
How are you all? I hope you are perfectly fine and doing great in your life. Today am here to take part in this contest.
I love to invite my steemain friends.
@zoyabhatti06.
@meehu.
@shano49.
So let's start.🍀
What do you believe is the number one secret to a strong relationship?
If the person next to you is the one who hurts you or thinks badly of you, I don't think you can feel safe anywhere in the world. I have learned from my life that life is beautiful only when the person next to you is honest with you and knows Love has no meaning. Love cannot be achieved by any means, nor do you need to make any effort for love. This is forefeeding. Once it enters your heart, then no one else can enter your heart.
What role does active listening play in building stronger connections?
There is a very important part for any relationship. I will say the same thing again: if there are two people, there is a relationship between them, whether they are your parents or your siblingssiblings , partner You have to listen. If you have something to say, if you want the other person to listen to you and not to dismiss you as useless, then you have to listen to him/her too. Because only by listening can you understand the other person. The other person can reach your heart and you can reach his/her heart. When you see him/her alive, it means that you have given up on this relationship. I used to keep quiet about a woman only when she ends everything in the relationship. That's why listening, remembering, and paying attention are the most important parts of any relationship.
Can a relationship survive without forgiveness? Why or why not?
Suddenly saying that forgiveness is the best solution in a relationship is not a good idea. If you want to save the relationship, I would say no because.......
Its depends on the situation that the situation is between two people. Sometimes the situation is so bad that there is no room for forgiveness. Because I have passed a lot of age and I have seen many relationships form and deteriorate. Sometimes I see relationships that had no room for forgiveness. Most of the time, it was the domestic violence that is done to women. When they raise their voice or go to court, they are told to end it. When the police force the boy, he says that if you forgive me, I will not do it again. At that time, they take him home. She forgives him, but after that, the beating starts again. Then she is not even allowed to go to the police station again. Therefore, I will say that forgiveness is not don't have any option to everything. It depends on the situation. What is the situation like.. So for me forgiveness depend of the depth of mistake.
What’s a common mistake people make in relationships that weakens them over time?
As I have told you, I am old enough now and I have seen many relationships come and go, so my experience is also quite high, so in this sense, I have seen that relationship is a very sweet thing, but in Pakistan it is seen in a strange way. You do not allow two people to get married of their choice. Here, most of the time, parents choice is Everything and but childrens have love life in school or college . there is someone whom they love, but they are under pressure from their parents, they get married with their parent's choice but after that, the same problem starts that they did not like each other but they just live together and have children, which is a strange situation that I have not understood at all till now. And then at first they continue to tolerate it and then they try to live with each other and then at one point they get angry with each other and think about getting married again. So I think The mistake that is made is that the relationship is more than that, it is the parents who have given it, but parents should also listen to their children and children should also talk to their parents first when the topic of relationships comes up in their home and tell them that they cannot live with this person.So this is also a mistake of children where they feel that they should speak up. When they talk about marriage later, it seems strange. It would be better if they told their parents before marriage and talked to them.
Good to know that honesty is one of the most outstanding feature in all types of relationships.
Keep steeming.
Thank you for publishing an article in the Steem4nigeria community today. We have assessed your entry and we present the result of our assessment below.
MODs Comment/Recommendation:
Remember to always share your post on Twitter using these 3 main tags #steem #steemit $steem
Hi, Endeavor to join the #Nigeria-trail for more robust support in the community. Click the link Nigeria-trail
Guide to join