Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 98: The phase of my life I would never like to experience again.
Assalam-o-Aliakum Friends.
🍀.What do you understand by tough/challenging season of life?
Life is very beautiful, full of ups and downs. Things are not always good, but they are not always bad. Talking about tough situations, it is that moment that tells a person who is with him and who is not, and he is able to see whether he is able to stand up for himself in this difficult time or not. This is a tough situation when many difficulties arise in front of you at once, or let's say that one of your difficulties weighs heavily on many difficulties, and this happens for a long time. No difficulty goes away in an instant. Then you learn something new from it, something that comes in handy in your life. We face a lot of difficulties, but at the end, we remember it as a lesson of a lifetime.
🍀.Have you ever experienced a very tough season of your life that almost broke you? If yes, share with us.
Sometimes moments pass in the blink of an eye, and some moments last so long that You get tired of these situations and at some point you start to lose courage. There have been many such incidents in my life too, due to which I felt very small and very weak.
Once it happened tha that when my husband died, my daughter went into depression. It was one difficulty after another and I didn't even understand what to do. I had already lost one person and didn't want to lose another. Her condition was getting worse day by day. She mostly slept or she liked to be alone. She didn't eat or drink anything and these things were killing me inside. I tried to talk to her but she was always angry and I was wondering what happened to her. At that time, I forget my pain and just wanted to see her because I didn't want to sit in my own house and open up another life. My two daughters and I helped her again to get her out of this pain. It was a difficult time in my life that was not going away. It had been a time of about six to eight months. I thought I would tackle it quickly, but it was not easy. Her health was getting worse day by day. Then I gave her all my time and then got her treated.she was taken to the hospital and stayed there. So when I got her back, I was very happy about this thing. Now I don't remember that hardship. I just remember that my daughter is fine , happy and healthy.
🍀.How did you manage to scale through that phase?
As I said before, I didn't understand what to do. One problem after another arose in front of me. I had no solution to the first problem because it was the very truth of life that I was seeing in front of me. But the second truth that was in front of me, maybe I could have tackled it. Maybe I could have given it time. I could have saved her. If I had thought about myself and sat with my pain, maybe I would have never been able to get out of it. And then I would have lost my daughter with me. But then when I looked at her, I saw that a mother can never give up. A mother is the bravest. If she tries to do something, I was not a wife or a woman at that time. I was just a mother at that time. And the responsibility of a mother is that her child is her first priority and she doesn't see anything else except her child. So I did the same. When I did this, I was able to do better.
🍀.If you were offered a million dollars to go through that ugly phase again, will you gladly do?
A million dollars is a huge amount of money. It might be best for your difficult circumstances if someone gives you a million dollars and your life changes overnight. But this is not about a million dollars, it is about my daughter's life and she is more valuable than that. So I can't sit here with that much money because peace of mind is the best and there is nothing in the world better than peace of mind. If your mind is not in your hands, then what you have done with that much money, then other people will take it. So in my opinion, I didn't like the money option at all. Yes, if it were me or if I had a tough time with me where I thought I could fix everything with the money, I would definitely take it. But this is about my daughter.