The Annoying Relative

Hello my steemian friends,

This is my participation in the contest”The Annoying Relative hosted by @bossj23

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Do you consider it a burden or an added benefit when your relatives come to visit you?

According to our tradition and the principles of our country, it is said that a guest who comes to our house is a form of God. To make this saying come true, I have imbibed it and when every relative comes to my house to meet or stay for some time, I treat them with full respect and hospitality. Secondly, I have never considered the visit of any relative as a burden and I consider it very shameful to expect any benefit from them.

When any guest comes to my house, my entire family feels self-satisfied by serving them and feeding them various types of dishes. When they come, we also like to provide them with our personal facilities so that they remember this behavior of ours after leaving us.

Is there any relative who troubles you so much that you hate coming to his house?

Yes, I have a relative whose visits I do not hate, but I dislike his visits because he is a person of very loose temperament, he is always ready to fight over every small thing, while talking he abuses a lot, this disturbs the balanced and dignified harmony of my house.

It also has an adverse effect on my daughter-in-law, my grandchildren and the servants of my house. Till now, a situation of disturbing me has not arisen because I have left such an impact that he feels that if he misbehaves too much, I have the courage to pick him up and throw him out.

Share your experience with this relative

One day when I had gone to office, he followed me to my house and abused and misbehaved with my wife. He threw something on my fridge which caused a lot of damage to it. When I came back, I came to know about the whole incident.

I went to his house at night and explained to him in his own language and made him write an apology letter for his actions and also made him pay for my loss. I also warned him not to come to my house in future and said that if he comes to my house again, I will send him to jail. He knew that I was capable of doing this, so he did not come to my house again.

Is it possible for a relative to divide the house? Explain
What do you mean by partition that we give him a share in our house in his name, this is very unlikely .

But once one of my relatives had suffered a huge loss in his business and his financial condition had become very bad, he had to sell his house, his family was on the verge of dying from hunger. Then I gave him the upper portion of my house to live in for free, and I also used to buy ration for his house.

I also give him as a borrow a large amount of money to restart his work, it is a different matter that he cheated me later and did not return my money to me. But by doing this he lost his own credibility and then after this I started not liking helping people and lending money.

I also want to invite here @zulbahri @suryati1 and @ulfatulrahmah

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

Sur-riti❤️