My wonderful people of steemchurch, I greet you all, we are still still talking about keeping the right partner. And I have written about some on my previous post and which to continue here.

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KEEPING THE RIGHT PARTNER

• GET A MENTOR
  Every good and successful footballers has a coach, every athletes too has a trainers and these are activities for a season but marriage is for a lifetime commitment, so we need a mentor who can guide us through and counsel us with Godly counsel.

Mentors are home makers, marriage builders and God gave them godly insight and wisdom to lead you successfully in your quest of getting Mr/Mrs right. With mentors watching over your relationship, you will have a timely solutions to the problems created by your immaturity and in-experience in handling your relationship. Excluding professional counselor or relationship experts, pastor etc. Can destroy your relationship, relationship are set on instructions, success in relationship is all about instructions and who your instructors are, any relationship short of instruction will hardly escape destructions.

Don't ignore the ministry of a coach; seek the wisdom of God concerning your relationship. Many relationship could have been saved of the couples involved can bring themselves under the guidance of a mentor.

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• COMMUNICATION
  Communication is the process by which you and your partner express your views, belief, dreams, vision and ideas to each other and both are able to listen to each other's.

In a relationship, hearing and understanding the meaning of what your partner is trying to say is very important, the reason why people believe that love is blind is because many listen to their partners but not hearing and understanding what their partners are saying, they can't read in-between the line to discover when the partner tell countless lies.

Communication is a major key to building a successful relationship and the best tools to detest fake livers who just after your beauty, money, gift, fame etc.

Communication unravels the mysteries and discovers whom your partner really is and also opens the door of your heart to each other.

Communication means saying the right thing about your marriage at the right time, the reason why many dated for long time without positive result is lack of communication, many couples engage in superficial communication that doesn't add value to their relationship, they engage in banal, insipid, and empty chatter which have no relevance to their relationship and future together.

Many engage in frivolous talks to either while away time or fool themselves into believing that their relationship is working not knowing that they are just lovers who lust after each other.

Communication is a success tools you must master if you want your relationship to succeed; communication helps you to get the track record of the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Communication build trust and confidence in a relationship, we must tell our partners our deepest secrets because secret have a way of being discovered and exposed by someone and when it's discovered it may ruin our relationship, be honest and truthful from day one never hide any secret.

• FORGIVING
  Forgiveness is simply releasing a person from the debt you perceive they are indebted with, do not allow sun go down on your anger neither give place to the devil in your relationship (Ephesians 4:26-27)
  That means do not let it be too late before you forgive, forgive promptly. Remember that you can never see a perfect human being, so there is no way you will not offend each other.

Thank you for stopping by, God bless you

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