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persuasion requires some processes and this processes could actually mean showing some proves that what you are sayig is actually the truth, in showing these proves, you have site examples, talk about people whom you know who actually are in this same shoes and didnt end up well, may be they lost all their families to the act, or something really bad happened, or tell true life stories , if you have had a very good character and the person in question knows well you are credible, you are trusthworthy, it will really help you to change is point of view,ultimately, your character creates the trust upon which you can build your arguement.