Putting others first: 3 ways to be selfless in a me-first world!

in #steemiteducation6 years ago (edited)


Introduction

Workplace bullying is as dangerous as any other type. It damages your. It kills you emotionally, affects you work rate, your life and your entire demeanor. So the best thing to do is to face it as soon as it starts. No delaying, denying or trying to hide the situation. So, so what are some of the suggested ways to deal with bullying at the workplace? Here are 3 tips.
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Being selfless simply means putting the interests and concern of other people ahead of your own. You hardly find it in today's world where everyone is pushing ahead to become number one. You go to any public service and see people trying to jump queue. You hail a taxi, someone else wants to take it. People's selfishness is everywhere, so overwhelming. So to avoid getting cut up in this bad habit, how can you be less selfish and care for others first? In 3 ways.

1. Learn Patience: This is a single quality that prevents people from being selfless. If you cultivate patience, it will be easier to put your own needs to the background and attend to that of others. Its a fast-paced world and people want everything fast - fast cash, fast movement, fast food, etc. Everything must happen instantly but that is not supposed to be like that. So be patient, allow others to be attended to and that is a big step towards being selfless.

2. Do some acts of kindness: When you do things for others, you are being selfless. Perform some acts of kindness. To begin, so small ones like opening the door for an old person. Giving up your sit in a crowded bus or train, smiling at someone and other things. Apart from helping others, kind acts make us feel happy and fulfilled. From small ones, it can be easier to do bigger acts of kindness.

3. Do volunteer work: This can be easier if you started from small acts of kindness. You can volunteer to do community service that will benefit others. You can help to clean the environment, assist the homeless, work at a motherless home or old people's facility, etc. There are many opportunities to volunteer your time. When you do this, you tend to forget your problems and focus on helping others. It pays.

Conclusion

Our selfish environment can easily engulf us, so we need to work harder to become more selfless. It feels really good to be of assistance to others. To impact a single life is more valuable than the whole money in this world. So, try to do something for someone today and you will be happy you did.

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yes true , the three keys mentioned here are the the vital ones to succeed o become more selfless and confidante.

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The most important way to deal with bullying at work is to take him to court. Because the penalty for mobbing is very severe. That employer could go to jail.

@focusnow, Patience is most vital ingredient because it will going to give others a Breathing space when they will around us. Stay blessed.

our environment is selfish but it is in us to change paradigms and develop the love of Christ and project it to the neighbor