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I have confidence in you FBA...Keeping the 'good' in it for 'others' as well, can be a great motivating factor.

Yep.
Its been a different world now that i adjusted my dial to the empathy channel.

That military training takes effort to overcome.
I had to remember to ring the doorbell and not just kick in the door.
Now its becoming second nature, like seatbelts.