Silliest thing you've done when you're angry with your husband
Ran away from home, under the guise of jogging.
That night, I was furious with my husband. Of course, my anger was justified, but he didn't know I was upset. I didn't want to talk about it yet, waiting for my heart and mind to calm down.
The next morning, my husband had a webinar, and he happened to be the resource person.
While my husband was busy on his laptop, I put on my jogging outfit and sneaked out without saying goodbye. I ran away under the guise of jogging.
I deactivated #WhatsApp notifications and all social media, only brought 20 thousand in cash and a debit card that I tucked inside my favorite Chinese cellphone case hahaha
I walked from my housing complex to Cilebut station (about 2 km). Then, at the station, I sat, quiet, and blankly watched the trains pass by, feeling sorry for myself and thinking about the things that were happening to me (without thinking about how to solve them). Hahaha.
I don't know why, it was like something was moving, my body immediately entered the train to Bogor hahaha
That's it, finally I took the train from Cilebut to Bogor.
Then, when I arrived at Bogor station, I walked. This time, I actually jogged. I ran around the Bogor Botanical Gardens SSA while listening to my favorite songs. At least escaping and running could lighten my mind a bit. In other words, I didn't think about anything while running. It was just me, myself, and my beloved Chinese cellphone. Hahahaha
When I was tired, I decided to go home. I took a public minibus to my parents' house, about 15 km from the Bogor Botanical Gardens.
When I got home, I immediately took a shower.
My parents asked:
"Where were you?"
“From the botanical garden”
That day, I slept at my parents' house until the afternoon. Then my parents asked me again:
"You're not coming home?"
“Huh? Where are you going home to?”
“To Cilebut. Where is your husband?”
Oh lord.. I just remembered I have a husband :'(
This is so exciting. While I was jogging , listening to playlists , eating delicious food, and being ALONE, I completely forgot about my husband. Considering that during my marriage, I didn't have any time for me time at all . The only time I had me time , I forgot I had a husband, haha.
So that afternoon I went home by online motorcycle taxi. On the way, I thought and worried:
"Oh my God, has my husband eaten yet? I left without saying goodbye, I didn't make breakfast, and now it's almost dinner time."
But I stubbornly refused to open WhatsApp to chat with him. I really didn't want to, and I was terrified of seeing his phone.
Out of nowhere, I suddenly wanted to buy salted eggs, while thinking about eating with my husband tonight. I'd eat noodles with salted eggs.
When I got home, my husband hugged me and asked me 1000000000 questions. I didn't answer. I just hugged him back. It felt so calm and comfortable after leaving my husband all day and then coming home to be hugged tightly :3
but still, there are always questions and answers:
"What's wrong with you? Did I do something wrong?"
"nothing, it's okay"
Btw, my version of "gapapa" means: I have accepted everything sincerely and with an open heart, and will never discuss the matter again in the future.
It turns out one of the solutions to my problem is: hugging. Hahahahahahaha
No matter how wrong he was, when he hugged me, everything suddenly fell apart. We were loving and romantic again💜 then we told each other what we had been doing all day.. No hard feelings.. My husband didn't attack me or even get angry at me.
Finally that night we ate noodles and salted eggs.
I don't like the white part of salted eggs, but he really likes them. I gave the white part to my husband as a token of my love for him, or so that it wouldn't be wasted :3 hehehe
