Advice to you is move on with your life cause it won't only ever be one or tow or three. From your post I see a pattern of a man who does not care about you in the slightest. The only reason for the change of heart is the feeling of loss on his part. Once a cheater always a cheater. It will consume you and take what ever is left of your goodness and crush it. You deserve better my dear. Take it from me. I should have walked away. I couldn't handle not knowing who was involved and it consumed me with rage and anger that to this day still rages on. I'm sorry for you and I know how you feel. Stay strongE!