Thanks for reading, Niinja! You are so right - the medical profession is a mess in so many ways. I'll never forget having to fill out the form before the D&C that asked me if I was pregnant - I just looked at the nurse, like, WTF??? Then they sent me home with a list of psychologists specializing in infertility. They were all listed with their areas of expertise - but not one of them admitted in their list that loss was even a thing. Nope! So sorry you've been through so much yourself. So far so good this time - thanks for the encouragement!