I wonder if this is a valid instance of the "toxic masculinity" theory. Men who complain of harassment are perceived as cowards, weaklings, or losers who can't appreciate female advances. Maybe even shudder GAY!

See the different public reaction of a male teacher abusing a female student (universally "BURN HIM AT THE STAKE!") and a female teacher abusing a male student (Often "Niiiiiice . . . She's hot! Score, bro!")