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RE: A Man Is Thirsty (Redux)
Yeah bad choice of words there.. bleeped it out. Actually I don't even know why I said that, but I was thinking that I spend a lot of time alone and I don't mind at all. Comes with writing, djing, reading - I get pretty obsessed aboutstuff that interests me. Even I used to spend plenty of time solo dancing in the gym, and I actually enjoy it. It's just that I think I'm fine being social too.. hmm. Is it possible to mentally train oneself to "not giving any crap about what others think" and just "go with the flow" ? Or is the anxiety biological in some ways?
Too much logic? :D
Never too much logic haha
IMO, Psychological ability of not giving a crap was probably determined by bio-psycho-social influences and genes, but I think that it is possible to"train" ourselves not to give a crap but even having ability to consider such training has been also determined by our genetic-biological and environmental influences\experiences. In the end there is no such thing as free will. In my case, my loneliness is direct product of my unsustainable, negligence and abusive experiences in childhood. For a while I thought that it was my choice due to my character until I realised that it is just projection of many anxieties and some psychological disorders.
(btw is your chat working? I have been getting bad gateway since yesterday evening)