Great and reflective post. Definitely can relate to this. It's okay to help people but not drag them if they aren't pulling their own weight. You are a person who gives 90% with 100% effort. That's more than anyone could ask for and respect with appreciation. If we continue to help those who don't help themselves it is a never ending circle. We can only do so much for others who do nothing for themselves to where we give too much and neglect ourselves in the process and long run. I'm all for helping people as well but we can help by teaching them the tools to craft it to their own abilities so that they are self sufficient in building their own foundational success. Upvoted