When we were young we were raised that it is wrong to talk to someone else about money? Where you must appear as a person who is above money and does not need it in the first place, so talking about money is a big defect

For example ... if you go to buy a specific product, and see that it is expensive and does not fit its value, in this case we are used to looking for any excuse that would make us get out of this situation and not buy, even though the response is very simple, which is that "this product is expensive and I do not want it"

I don't think anyone said this sentence before ..

Even in our initial work, whether you are working as a freelancer in self-employment, or working as an ordinary employee, you surely were very embarrassed at the beginning of your working life, and that you told the client, "Materiality is not a problem that we will agree on, God willing.

Even now, I have a problem with this, as I get embarrassed when I start talking to the customer about the money that I should get paid for this work, and I don’t know why, it’s just legacies that we have acquired that we don’t talk about money because “money is not everything”

So ... there is a red line drawn in our minds as we get closer to talking about money

But in fact, it is quite the opposite.

Is money a shame? Is it forbidden? Do people live without money? Isn't the person I offer the service to or buy from him looking for money as well?

Are hospitals, schools, and malls - all those places that force us to pay for our presence - convinced that "money is not everything"?

The whole world around us talks about money and speaks the language of money, and those who deal with us speak the language of money, except for us ..

We see that money is not everything and therefore it is embarrassing to talk about money because we think it will make us look bad?

I try very hard to change those abnormal ideas that I gained about money, as the real world is different from the ideas we were brought up with.

In your opinion ..

How can we overcome it and get rid of it?

Do you have any false ideas or beliefs that you inherited that represent an obstacle for you in your dealings?